A psychic might attempt to answer the “when” of this question. As an unpsychic, I can’t make those sorts of predictions, but I can clarify some of the issues and suggest some concrete things to do to help you get what you really want, which is companionship and LOVE.
Here is your unpsychic answer:
Your Energy. I want to honor the longing and desire inherent in the question. It is natural and good to want to have a partner. I do feel your soul is moving you into alignment to manifest a partner in your life. I’m sure you can feel it too. This is good! The energy is flowing now. You have opened up your second chakra. Love is in the air!
Karmic Alert! If you are trying to force the future to be what you think it should be, you are not working out of your higher truth. When you are in alignment, things fall naturally into place. When you force things, you create karma. Whatever action you take (including waiting), you must be conscious and responsible and willing to accept the consequences of that action. Then you won’t have regrets.
Reality Check. Your egoic mind is fixated on having a person who is not currently available. You are lost in your sixth chakra, in your head. Since you don’t have what you think you want and you don’t know how to make it happen, you naturally create a state of frustration and confusion. This is an ego trap, and you can’t manifest what you want under these conditions. You need to center yourself back in your body. Observe what’s happening in the lower chakras and feel whatever charges come up for you without judging them.
Yes-But Trap. “Couldn’t that person I’m fixating on be the one?” Well, sure, it’s possible, but wouldn’t you rather keep your options open? If you are going to bet your happiness, wouldn’t you rather increase the odds?
Moment of Self-Honesty. It’s good to contemplate and dream about what you want in a future partner. You’ve done some good work there, but it appears that you might need to add “available” to your list. Could it be that you have some fears around relationship and that your attraction to someone unavailable is a reflection of that fear? Look within and you will know the answer.
Turn Over the Control. Most people don’t know what is best for them, and they have all kinds of fear based programs running in their subconscious mind that sabotage their best efforts. Let your dreams be dreams. Stay focused on what you want but don’t be so specific. Maybe there is something better that you just don’t know about. If you keep fixating, you might miss it. Let Divine Providence work with you to bring your dream into reality. You will get a better result.
Divine Timing. Things happen in God’s time. Kind of sucks to hear that from a human perspective when you’re feeling impatient because you want it NOW and it’s not happening. But there you are. Impatience blocks manifestation; trust allows it.
What to Do Next. Best thing to do when you are feeling impatient or obsessive is to put your energy toward something else that will refocus your energy and make the time go faster. Cultivate an activity that makes you happy and that you would enjoy sharing with a sweetheart. Stay grounded (first chakra), relaxed and open to possibilities. Then, when you least expect it, there he is. And YOU will be available.
Good luck on your journey!
p.s. You might enjoy the movie Under the Tuscan Sun. It might inspire you to fix up your house to welcome in a new special someone!