People often want a psychic to look into the future and tell them they can have what they are wanting, just as they are imagining it. They want the psychic to either help them get their way, or reassure them that their way is right.
As an unpsychic, it’s my job to open you up to more possibilities and encourage you to move toward a happier future. It’s my job to help you find hope.
Hope doesn’t always mean you are going to get your way, however. Oftentimes, when people ask for hope, what they want is confirmation of their wishful thinking.
Wishful Thinking Is an Attempt to Control the Future
In wishful thinking, there is a disconnect between the mind and the heart and body. In wishful thinking you may feel agitated, nervous, or even a little bit crazy. You feel good one moment and then down, depressed and despairing the next. When you are wishing, you only feel good as long as you get reassurance that your wish will come true. Your mind goes over things again and again. You say “Yes, but” a lot. When people contradict your wish, you get angry and try to make them see your point.
Wishful thinking comes from the ego. You plan and scheme and try to manifest stuff. You try to control outcomes. You feel disappointed when you don’t get what you thought you wanted. Even when you get what you thought you wanted it doesn’t make you happy.
Wishful thinking is usually not in alignment with your spirit’s purpose, because your spirit wants you to be whole and happy, and wishful thinking makes you feel like you’re missing something.
Hope Connects You to Your Future
Hope is a spiritual condition. You know that you are loved, and you rely through faith on something bigger and wiser than you.
When you are in hope, you acknowledge your desires, but you don’t get stuck on them. You don’t fixate on any particular way for them to be fulfilled, or even that they must be fulfilled. When you are hopeful, you feel at ease, grounded and content, because no matter what happens, you know you’re going to be okay.
You stay relaxed in the moment, enjoying life, knowing that the future is naturally unfolding as it should. Since you are centered and flexible, you can respond to the intuitive guidance you receive that will connect you to your future – not the one you are spinning in your head, but the one that will answer your deepest wishes.
Hopeful people have lots of friends, because hope is inspiring. It draws to it all those who want to believe life can be better.
True hope creates possibilities. Wishful thinking limits them.
My unpsychic advice for staying hopeful? Don’t hang out in the future – it’s not real. Keep your mind on today and do stuff that works. Let the future take care of itself.